This is me- the writing goddess Melanie

This is me- the writing goddess Melanie
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Saturday, January 10, 2015

Everyone Wants to "Help" Writers. But Whose Help Do You Really Need?

Everyone Wants to "Help" Writers. But Whose Help Do You Really Need?

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By: dmatriccino | April 27, 2011
     
You’ve probably heard the “Wild West” cliche more than once this year in reference to all the changes happening in the publishing industry.

For starters, there’s the Borders bankruptcy, the Amanda Hocking self-pub success story, the Eisler defection, and Amazon striking deals with New York houses for print distribution of their Encore titles.

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I’ve been working and observing the media industry since 1998. I’ve been directly helping writers since 2001. Never before have I seen so much activity, service, and business ideas focused on “helping” writers as during this period.

Why is everyone suddenly interested in helping?

Lots of people do, in fact, need help.
There’s lots of confusion.
There’s some money to be made.
As far as reason #1, that’s always been the case. Beginning writers especially do need some help. We might not be talking brain surgery or rocket science, but succeeding in the media/publishing community requires as much work and learning as any other profession. Going it alone is almost impossible.

But when you combine reasons #2 and #3, it produces a lot of unnecessary “help” that writers don’t need, or that could waste their time.

Let’s get clear about what writers need to do, in order of priority.

Read. It’s always part of your life and never goes away.
Write. (Practice. Do the work.)
Get meaningful feedback from trusted peers/writers and mentors/professionals.
After that, there is no one-size-fits-all path. People learn, improve, and get published in different ways. People also market and promote effectively in different ways.

Confusion results when you realize how much new tools and new technology are changing how information/stories (or “books”) get read, bought, sold, and shared. I hope everyone realizes that being a successful writer today—or tomorrow—looks very different than it did 10 years ago. (That’s why I hate the stories about how so-and-so bestselling author doesn’t interact online or use social media. I’m willing to bet they established their audience and made their name before industry transformation took hold.)

But back to the main point:

Before you decide you’re going to pay someone to help you—at any point in your writing, marketing, promotion, or publishing path—ask these questions.

(Also, treat your time and energy like money. Before you decide you’re going to invest your time and energy with any kind of writing community, figure out what the benefit is to you. Is it the best or smartest solution for you?)

1. Who’s behind it?
Do you trust who’s behind it? Are there specific names attached? Do they have experience that applies to what you’re trying to do? What’s the bias (if any) of the people behind the service?

2. What’s the business model?
How do they make money? Almost every service has to turn a profit, and there’s nothing wrong with that. For valuable or quality help that furthers our careers, we should be willing to pay.

But by uncovering the business model, you have some insight into what actions that business wants you to take (or, is biased toward you taking) to stay in business. (That means: Ignore all the marketing talk about “We help writers,” and instead see how they make money helping writers, so your eyes are wide open.)

I see too many services, businesses, and communities that are solutions looking for problems. That means someone wants to make money, and wants to help writers in a good way, but has a service that doesn’t really serve a purpose, or doesn’t really deliver a benefit to writers.

3. Is it transparent?
It’s to your advantage that we now live in an age where businesses are expected to be transparent and frank. So take a good look at the services you might want to pay for, or the websites where you spend your time. Are they upfront about what they do, what do they have a stake in, and how they make money? Are they upfront about how the work gets done? I favor the ones who have nothing to hide, as well as those with a point-of-view and distinctive personality.

4. Is it credible? Is it authoritative?
Sometimes this is tough for a new writer to evaluate. If you don’t know what distinguishes a trustworthy and experienced service provider from an inexperienced one, then at the very least, look for success stories that match  the kind of success you want. Look for testimonials and recommendations. Look for a  track record and history of achievement in the areas where you need help. (Someone who just got into the business within the last year might be an opportunist. Or they could just be a very intelligent but laid-off New York publishing employee.)

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Tuesday, January 6, 2015

10 Steps to Finding Your Writing Voice

I found this exercise in finding your writing voice most helpful and thought I'd share this exercise with you.I hope you find it as helpful as I did.  Please leave comments if you have something to say or if you found it helpful.

Photo credit: Dan Foy (Creative Commons)


 10 Steps to Finding Your Writing Voice: "An exercise for finding your voice

Not sure where to start? No problem. Most of us need help understanding our voice. Here’s a short exercise that can help you — just follow these 10 steps:

Describe yourself in three adjectives. Example: snarky, fun, and flirty.
Ask (and answer) the question: “Is this how I talk?”
Imagine your ideal reader. Describe him in detail. Then, write to him, and only him. Example: My ideal reader is smart. He has a sense of humor, a short attention span, and is pretty savvy when it comes to technology and pop culture. He’s sarcastic and fun, but doesn’t like to waste time. And he loves pizza.
Jot down at least five books, articles, or blogs you like to read. Spend some time examining them. How are they alike? How are they different? What about how they’re written intrigues you? Often what we admire is what we aspire to be. Example: Copyblogger, Chris Brogan, Seth Godin, Ernest Hemingway, and C.S. Lewis. I like these writers, because their writing is intelligent, pithy, and poignant.
List your favorite artistic and cultural influences. Are you using these as references in your writing, or avoiding them, because you don’t think people would understand them. Example: I use some of my favorite bands’ music in my writing to teach deeper lessons.
Ask other people: “What’s my voice? What do I sound like?” Take notes of the answers you get.
Free-write. Just go nuts. Write in a way that’s most comfortable to you, without editing. Then go back and read it, asking yourself, “Do I publish stuff that sounds like this?”
Read something you’ve recently written, and honestly ask yourself, “Is this something I would read?” If not, you must change your voice.
Ask yourself: “Do I enjoy what I’m writing as I’m writing it?” If it feels like work, you may not be writing like yourself. (Caveat: Not every writer loves the act of writing, but it’s at least worth asking.)
Pay attention to how you’re feeling. How do you feel before publishing? Afraid? Nervous? Worried? Good. You’re on the right track. If you’re completely calm, then you probably aren’t being vulnerable. Try writing something dangerous, something a little more you. Fear can be good. It motivates you to make your writing matter."



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Sunday, January 4, 2015

500 Words a Day: The Secret to Developing a Regular Writing Habit

500 Words a Day: The Secret to Developing a Regular Writing Habit:



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Take the writing challenge.  Commit to writing just 500 words a day that does not include emails.  The benefit is not only do you develop a regular writing habit, but if worked the right way you could be well on your way to that novel you've always wanted to write.  Do you have an idea for a novel?  Then put the 500 words to use daily towards the novel.  Writers write!  I am going to take the challenge and I encourage my readers to challenge yourself as well.

Tuesday, December 30, 2014

CREATIVE WRITING CONTESTS WITH NO ENTRY FEES for 2014 and 2015

Just a heads up:  I saw a couple of writer's contests with no entry fees and thought I'd share with my fellow writers out there.  These have deadlines in January so if you want to enter please do so soon.  I will be on the look out for more contests to share with my readers so check back often to ensure that you don't miss out on any contests.

CREATIVE WRITING CONTESTS WITH NO ENTRY FEES for 2014 and 2015: "The Roswell Award for Short Fiction
Short story adult writers are invited to enter the L.A. Sci-Fi One-Act Play Festival's writing contested called The Roswell Award for Short Fiction. The writer who has written the best short sci-fi story will win a cash prize of $1,000 ... (more)
Deadline: 01/15/2015Prizes: $1,000Fees: $0Genre(s): FictionUpdated on: 12/15/2014
Nelson Algren Literary Awards
Open to all topics and styles, the judges will award the finalist a cash prize of $3,500 for the best short fiction story ... (more)
Deadline: 01/31/2015Prizes: $3,500Fees: $0Genre(s): FictionUpdated on: 12/13/2014"



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Sunday, December 7, 2014

As we look forward to Christmas

     Hi everyone, how was your Thanksgiving?  Mine was spent with some family and friends.  The rest of the day was pretty quiet.  I ate too much and treated myself to some dessert.  So much food to choose from and I wanted to taste it all.  Unfortunately with a small serving of each, my plate filled up rather quickly.  It's hard not to eat too much during the holidays.  It was wonderful to catch up with those we only get to see on special occasions.  For me, it is a reminder that I need to make more of an effort to keep in touch.
     Can you believe that Christmas is only 18 days away?  Where has the time gone?  This year seems to have flown by.  It seems like such a short time ago we were dyeing Easter eggs and attending Easter service.  Now Christmas and subsequently the New Year is only a blink away.  Have you completed your shopping?  I am usually that crazy lady that you see on Christmas Eve battling crowds in a mad dash to get that last minute gift.  Why do we do that?  Every year on December 26th I say to myself that I will get an earlier start on next year and when the next year comes, it is still the same.
     How many of you tackled Black Friday sales in the last ditch effort to save money on Christmas this year?  Those crowds are vicious and the lines wrapping around the building are so intimidating,  It is not for the faint of heart I'll say.  That said the deals are incredible.  Deals on electronics have many holiday shoppers cutting their Thanksgiving meals short to get a good spot in line at WalMart. Technology is king with teenagers and adults alike, taking advantage of Black Friday deals can really shave money off the Christmas bill.
     A thought this Christmas is to make a Christmas tradition of adding homemade gifts for the members of the family.  This is a way to include children in the act of giving gifts this Christmas Season.  Small children are many times robbed of the joy of giving because they have no money.  Involving children in making homemade Christmas gifts would allow them to take a more active role in the Holiday giving.  It is also a great opportunity to teach a lesson.  It is better to give than to receive.  Merry Christmas to you and yours this Holiday Season!

Saturday, November 1, 2014

My Life Without Bruce

      My husband passed away on October 9, 2014 of an apparent heart attack.  His birthday was October 8, and we had just returned from dinner when he collapsed on the ramp leading into our home.  It is surprising that ten years of my life waking up next to and building my life with him was over in a split second.  How does a person really come to terms with a loss so large?
       It's been three weeks and I am still doing paperwork such as applying for survivors benefits and waiting for the death certificate.  Hardly able to catch my breath and trying to figure out how to be alone again.  Television cures the quiet house, but cooking for one is hardly worth cooking.  I will have to get new recipes that can be modified for one.  I know I am rambling and not about a pleasant subject matter, but life is certainly not always happy.
     Bruce was a United States Air Force Veteran and wore his Air Force T-shirts and hats proudly.  We were quite the pair, the two of us.  I think as people we take for granted that we have more time to go to the museum that we always said we'd go to.  Another year to save money to take that trip to Paris.  It's a real eye opener when the seconds have ticked away and the opportunity to share those moments aren't there anymore.
     That said, don't wait to save for the trips or go to the museums or for that matter just to spend the day doing that thing you always planned to do.  We are not guaranteed tomorrow.  I am not yet able to take comfort from the fond memories.  They hurt to much and are a painful reminder that he isn't here.  In time, I know that I will be able to embrace those memories in comfort, but for now, I grieve.
Rest In Peace, Bruce


Sunday, September 21, 2014

How to make an easy Ice Box Lemon pie

                                                                  The Ingredients

                                                   1 Graham cracker pie crust
                                                   1 14 oz. can of sweetened condensed milk
                                                   1 container Cool Whip
                                                  1/2 cup Lemon juice ( can be substituted lime for key lime pie)
         
             Step One: Blend whole can of condensed milk with 1/2 cup of lemon juice in a medium                                        mixing bowl until well blended.

             Step Two: Blend 1/2 of the container of Cool Whip with the condensed milk/lemon juice                                      mixture until well blended.

             Step Three: Pour mixture into the graham cracker crust until evenly spread

             Step Four: Cover the pie with the remaining Cool Whip.

             Step Five: Refrigerate!

             Step Six:  Enjoy!


                             This pie is great for dessert and will be a hit at get togethers!